Why Holidays Like Mother’s Day Trigger Domestic Violence Reports

Holidays often bring heightened emotions. Whether it's past trauma, expectations colliding with reality, or added financial pressure, events like Mother’s Day can stir underlying tensions in family relationships. For some, this emotional cocktail results in confrontations that escalate quickly.

In Michigan, law enforcement tends to see a rise in domestic disturbance calls during the holidays. Officers are trained to take these calls very seriously, and if there’s even the slightest indication of violence or danger, someone is likely going to be arrested—even if both parties claim “nothing happened.”

While some of these reports are legitimate, others stem from a misunderstanding or, worse, are weaponized during custody battles or breakups. Being accused of domestic violence—especially during an emotionally charged holiday like Mother’s Day—can lead to life-altering consequences whether you're guilty or not.

Understanding Domestic Violence Charges in Michigan

Under Michigan law, “domestic violence” refers to physical assault or threats of violence involving individuals in a close relationship. This could be spouses, former spouses, individuals in a dating relationship, or people who share a child in common.

The most commonly charged offense is “Domestic Assault,” which falls under MCL 750.81. The elements that the prosecutor must prove beyond a reasonable doubt are:

• You assaulted or battered another person.
• You had a domestic relationship with that person at the time of the offense.

Assault is defined as an attempt to cause physical harm or an act that causes a reasonable fear of harm. A battery occurs when there is actual physical contact intended to harm someone.

Felony domestic charges, such as “Aggravated Domestic Assault,” involve more serious injuries or a weapon. A third domestic violence offense can also be charged as a felony, according to MCL 750.81(4).

False Allegations: Why They Happen and What to Do

We see an unfortunate pattern in our practice—a breakup happens, custody is disputed, or someone wants to gain an upper hand in another legal matter. That’s when allegations of abuse sometimes come flying in, even when no violence occurred. These false claims can be used as a form of control or revenge.

During emotionally charged times like Mother’s Day, when families are expected to come together even if the situation is tense, arguments can be misinterpreted. Police officers are sometimes placed in a tough position and default to arresting one party based on minimal or conflicting evidence.

If you’ve been falsely accused of domestic violence in Michigan, it’s vital to take the matter seriously. These are criminal charges that can result in jail time, loss of child custody, limited contact with loved ones, and a permanent criminal record.

Defending Against Domestic Violence Charges in Michigan

The good news: being accused does not mean being convicted.

Domestic violence cases are often built around conflicting testimony, limited physical evidence, and biased accounts. Your defense starts as soon as the police arrive. Do not make statements. Anything you say can be used against you—often out of context.

Common Defenses:

• Self-Defense: You were defending yourself or someone else from harm.
• No Assault Occurred: The alleged victim fabricated or exaggerated the event.
• Lack of Intent: The contact or comment was accidental or misinterpreted.
• No Injury or Fear: Without evidence of harm or genuine fear, the prosecutor may struggle with their case.

An experienced defense attorney will start by gathering all possible evidence—witness statements, photos, text messages, call logs, and security footage. We regularly file motions to dismiss charges due to lack of evidence or improper police procedure.

In some cases, we can negotiate for the charge to be reduced to a non-domestic offense or pursue a deferral under 769.4a, which allows for dismissal if you complete certain conditions.

What to Expect After an Arrest for Domestic Violence

If you are arrested for domestic violence in Michigan, here’s what usually happens next:

1. Arraignment

This is your first appearance before a judge—typically within 24 to 48 hours. Bail or bond conditions will be set, and a “no contact” order may be issued even if the alleged victim doesn’t want it. If you live together or share children, this order can upend your life immediately.

2. Pretrial Hearings

This is a chance for your attorney to negotiate, challenge improper evidence, and raise defenses. Evidence exchanged through “discovery” will be crucial for evaluating the weakest points in the prosecutor’s case.

3. Trial or Resolution

Some domestic violence cases go to trial—others don’t. Our goal is always to get the best outcome for your specific situation. That may be a not guilty verdict, a dismissal, or avoiding a criminal record through creative legal methods.

How Boria Law Can Help You

If you're reading this and worried because you're facing domestic violence charges in Michigan, you’re not alone. We know how quickly things can spiral, especially during emotional times like Mother’s Day. Having the right legal representation can be the difference between walking away with a cleared name—or facing serious consequences.

Our firm has defended countless domestic violence cases and secured outright dismissals, not guilty verdicts, and reduced charges. Attorney Aaron J. Boria has the experience and tenacity you need when the odds seem stacked against you.

Call (734) 453-7806 today for a free and confidential consultation.

Final Thoughts: Don’t Let One Moment Define Your Life

Mother’s Day should be a time for appreciation, not confrontation. Unfortunately, for many people in emotionally charged relationships, the pressure of the holidays makes arguments turn into full-blown legal nightmares. If you've found yourself accused of domestic violence in Michigan—whether falsely or not—know that there are ways to fight back.

Domestic violence charges are more than just legal headaches—they affect your job, your family, your future. The state of Michigan treats them seriously, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have a right to a fair trial and a strong defense.

Get in front of this now. Call criminal defense attorney Aaron J. Boria at (734) 453-7806. Y